The case studies and testimonials in this chapter are drawn from real clients of this practice. Names, ages, and other identifying details have been changed throughout to protect each family's privacy, and every story here is shared with that family's permission.
“I came in looking for a way to stop the meltdowns. What I actually learned was how to stop taking them personally. That changed everything else.”
“Nobody told us the testing phase was a sign of trust building, not trust breaking down. Knowing that changed how we got through it.”
“As a kinship caregiver, I felt like I didn't belong in most parenting spaces. This practice never once made me feel like an afterthought.”
“Court involvement is exhausting on its own. Having a clinician who understood how to work with our case manager, not around her, made the whole process feel less like we were fighting alone.”
“My daughter's therapist worked with her nervous system, not just her behavior. I finally understood that the two were never separate to begin with.”
“I used to think answering their questions honestly would hurt them. It turns out avoiding the questions was what was hurting them.”
The stories and quotes in this chapter are shared to show what change can look like when the tools in this playbook are put into practice over time, not to promise a particular outcome or a particular timeline.
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